“I don’t owe you a response.” is just code word for “I’m being an asshole.”

2021.12.02 10:07 Bethharmon1994 “I don’t owe you a response.” is just code word for “I’m being an asshole.”

It's bizarre to me that if someone has hurt someone and did them wrong, an the hurt person confronts them about it through text, if the person who did the shitty thing completely ignores them that the rationalization for that behavior is “I don't owe you a response.” I mean yeah, but criminalizing someone for expressing an emotion and then pinning them as the crazy/needy one has been so normalized that we just don't feel the need to acknowledge when someone has REACTED to being treated like shit?
And I'm not talking about harassment or anything like that. I'm talking about, for example, if a person cheats on another person and the victim sends a paragraph text about how it affected them and the person ignores it completely and when the victim is basically crying out for their pain to be acknowledged its met with “well I don't owe you a response.” it's just code word for “I know that I did something shitty but I would rather not discuss it because it's easier for me that way.”
It's nuanced. A lot of different scenarios garner different responses but what is so hard about saying “I've seen your message but I am choosing not to respond.”
When did “I’m owning up to my shitty behavior.” turn into “you're just being too sensitive and needy.” every single time. Ever since texting has become the main form of communication we have normalized doing this to each other so HARD to the point that the “whoever cares less wins.” game should be a part of the freaking Olympics.
What's your take on this?
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2021.12.02 10:07 anxiousbro105 My sister (F20) strongly forces her politics on me (M16) when I don't like discussing political matters

My family is incredibly opinionated and divided politically. Literally each quadrant of the political spectrum is represented in my household and my dad is a local politician, so there's always been politics. I really never have aligned myself with any of it.
It's not that I'm a centrist. Nor do I view myself as above anyone. I just really don't care, really don't like controversy, avoid the news, find arguments distressing, and am more than happy to be blissfully ignorant. I don't really have a ton of strong opinions, I honestly just want to be left the fuck alone, especially as it pertains to politics. I'll call it out when someone says something objectively fucked up, I do my part in things relevant to the health/safety of others around me (ie mask & am fully vaccinated), but other than that I just avoid everything political as much as humanly possible for my own (fragile) sanity.
I'm 16M btw. What I described above though, that's been my stance for as long as I can remember. Suprisingly, most of my family members have been good about respecting that. I do occasionally have to enforce & reexplain my boundaries pretty much to everyone, but at that point nobody usually pushes it.
Especially in the past few years, I've been really close to my older sister (F20). She values her political identity a lot, is pursuing a bachelor's degree in social work, is incredibly politically active, goes to protests. She also has been increasingly difficult in pushing her beliefs on me or trying to get me to engage in a discussion about politics. I don't fucking want to touch it. It's not even that I have opposing views. It's that when stuff gets political she just steamrolls, gets very heated, is very quick to make character judgements, and I find some of the topics she's passionate about to be particularly distressing to discuss.
I've tried enforcing my boundary. I have to be particularly strong about it with her because she just won't stop, and she views that as opposing her view because I don't fight my parents that hard. I don't have to fight my parents that hard, they just stop when I tell them I'm not touching a topic. She's been getting all angry, short, and yelling at me for it. Which I really don't know how to handle other than leave and cry about it a few hours later tbh. I just don't know how to get her to respect that.
Any advice?
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